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Sexual Mastery & Emotional Regulation Coaching Application

This private 1:1 container is for men ready to master their emotional regulation, deepen intimacy, and build sexual presence that is grounded and powerful.

This short application helps determine if we are a strong fit to work together.

It takes about 5 minutes. All responses are confidential.

If aligned, you will receive next steps directly from me.

You are welcome to answer only what feels appropriate to share.

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Question 1 of 13

1. What is happening in your intimate or relational life right now that made you seek support? 

Write freely. Say what is actually happening, not what you think should be happening. 

Question 2 of 13

2. What pattern do you see repeating in your relationships or sexuality that you do not want to repeat again? 

This can include emotional patterns, sexual habits, avoidance, shutdown, or confusion. 

Question 3 of 13

3. What brings you here most right now?  

(Select all that apply)
A

Sexual mastery and presence

B

Breakup/ Relational Rupture / Uncoupling

C

Emotional regulation and relationship patterns

D

Not sure yet

Question 4 of 13

4. When emotional intensity arises, what do you most often do? 

 You may choose one, multiple or describe in your own words. 

(Select all that apply)
A

I shut down or go numb

B

I distract myself or stay busy

C

I seek sex, stimulation, or fantasy

D

I push through and try to control it

E

I slow down and feel it

F

I am not sure

G

I want to describe with my own words (next question)

Question 5 of 13

4. When emotional intensity arises, what do you most often do? 

If you feel called to describe in your own words you may write it here 

Question 6 of 13

5. How connected do you currently feel to your body? 

Please rate from 1 to 10 and/or share a few words about your experience.

Question 7 of 13

6. What have you already tried to address this situation? 

This can include therapy, coaching, self work, spiritual practices, or anything else. 

Question 8 of 13

7. Why is now the moment you are considering private support? 

What has shifted or become clear for you recently? 

Question 9 of 13

8. What is the real cost to you of continuing to handle intimacy and sexuality the way you have been?  

Optional, answer if you feel comfortable to. 

Question 10 of 13

9. What do you desire to be different in your life or relationships if you commit to this work? 

Sex and Integrity is not a pathology-driven model. We are not here to label, fix, or diagnose you. Our work is grounded in desire, growth, and the capacity to move toward the life and intimacy you consciously choose. 

Question 11 of 13

10. Private coaching is a financial investment. 

If we both feel this work is aligned, are you prepared to invest in this level of support? 

A

Yes

B

Possibly, I would need to discuss options

C

No

Question 12 of 13

11. This work involves slowing down, working with the body, and meeting uncomfortable emotions with presence. 

Are you open to this kind of process? 

A

Hell Yeah!!

B

Yes

C

No

Question 13 of 13

12. Is there anything else you feel is important for me to know about you at this moment?  

Optional. 

Confirm and Submit