"Inhabited sexual opening powerfully alters consciousness."

When people hear “sex coaching,” they often imagine performance tips, tricks in bed, or someone teaching you how to have better orgasms. Yes and that’s not all that I do.

For me, sex coaching is not about fixing you. It’s about helping you remember that your body is wise, that your turn-on is medicine, and that sex can be a pathway back to wholeness. To embody your Essence.

"Through our sexuality we experience ourselves as full force of nature." Bill Plotkin

 

Most of us grew up without guidance on sex. We learned through silence, shame, porn, or trial and error. We internalized beliefs about what it means to be a “good lover” or a “real man” or a “desirable partner.” And for many of us, those beliefs left us disconnected — from our bodies, from intimacy, from the truth of our own desire.

Sex coaching creates a space to unravel that conditioning. It’s where we bring breath, movement, and nervous system awareness into intimacy. It’s where we re-learn self-pleasure not as a quick release, but as a practice of presence, healing, and energy. It’s where we bring curiosity to the parts of us that feel numb, shut down, or ashamed — and find new ways to feel alive again.

In my work, sex coaching includes Taoist and Tantric practices, somatic tools, and trauma-informed guidance. Together, we use:

• Breathwork to regulate the nervous system and expand capacity for pleasure.

• Embodiment practices to resensitize areas of numbness and release old tension.

• Self-pleasure rituals to re-signify masturbation — turning it into a source of clarity, vitality, and personal power.

• Energy awareness to help you harness sexual energy not just for sex, but for creativity, intuition, and presence in your life.

For men, this often means learning that ejaculation and orgasm are not the same, and discovering how to use sexual energy to build confidence, stamina, and intimacy. For women and non-conforming genders, it can mean learning to feel safe in your turn-on, healing shame, and finding expression in the body that was once suppressed.

Sex coaching is not therapy. We don’t stay in the stories of the past. We work in the body, in the present moment. Because that’s where change happens. That’s where the nervous system can reset, where new patterns can be built, where you can begin to live as the most honest version of yourself.

The truth is: sex coaching is never only about sex. It’s about your life. It’s about how you show up in relationships, how you hold boundaries, how you express desire, how you allow yourself to feel joy, grief, anger, and pleasure without shame.

Sex coaching is an invitation to stop abandoning yourself. To stop performing. To stop numbing. It’s a path back to intimacy — with your body, your soul, and with others.

With love,
Eman 

TLDR

Sex can be your path to personal development and self-awareness, and a coach can shortcut your way. Soul searching through Sex and masturbation.